What is one thing you've learned from life?

Event : Our pre-wedding event

Don't allow anybody to control your happiness.

Me and my boyfriend are together since 2015 & now getting married next year. We love, respect and care for each other a lot. He is handsome and I am not that much beautiful but still he loves me whole-heartily and makes things special between us.

I have a bad reputation and need help. What should I do?

If you won't love yourself, how can you think others will love you?

Thanks for the crazy responses but I have seen people are judging without knowing the whole truth, he was with me, when I had nothing, today maybe I looks fine but long time back I used to not look good because I was under weight and I used to not do any care of skin. Below images spills the facts. We both have improved significantly physically, mentally and emotionally.

In this process I learnt do not let outsider to define your relationship and values, you know what capability you have.

Jenny from Perth writes – my partner is the life of the party, women and men adore him. But at home, he gets angry at us for the silliest reasons and never nice words me or our kids, always putting us down. Should I stay or leave him?

Initially we were friends only but people used to say there is some chemistry between both of you. One of my friend said, Are you sure he is into you? because he is so handsome, he can get anyone (I was lean, brown skin tone girl that time, still I am dusky girl but because of physique now I look better). I felt multiple times that I am inferior to have him even though I am capable enough, independent and self respected girl, I started feeling under confident and because of that thought I used to fight with him over small issues by saying you don't love me, you can't.

I used to feel bad & aggressive that why people are saying like this just because he is handsome and can show his intelligence then one day he said , see people has nothing to do with our lives, they will talk nonsense anyway and for me you are the most beautiful girl in this whole universe, I am dam sure, you are perfect for me, No once can support me & encourage me like you do.

Never let others to ruin your self-respect.

Can it be true that people know your name, not your story, they’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through, so take their opinions of you with a grain of salt?

Never fight with loved ones just because of other's thought.

Varsha Singh